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Why Buying & Selling at the Same Time Can Feel Impossible (And What to Do Instead)

Buying and Selling at the Same Time? You’re Not Alone

Whether you are scaling up or downsizing, you are not just handling one real estate transaction. You are managing two at once. For most people, this juggling act is overwhelming and rarely goes as smoothly as expected.

The Real Problem Is Not What You Think

Many people I speak with assume the challenge is a lack of listings, high prices, or that it is simply a bad time to move. In reality, these are just symptoms. The real issue is that no one has shown you how to move smart.

Three Shifts That Make All the Difference

1. Sequence Over Speed
Trying to buy and sell at the same time often leads to chaos. What you need is a clear sequence. For some, that means selling first with a flexible closing date. For others, it might involve securing a short-term rental or using financing options to buy before you sell.

2. Financing Is More Than Mortgage Rates
Have you explored your home equity options? Spoken to a broker about bridge loans or a home equity line of credit? The right financial strategy can make all the difference. At the time of writing, there are still concerns around tariffs, new trade agreements, and interprovincial trade barriers, so having a flexible plan is more important than ever.

3. Clarity Equals Confidence
If you are unsure about what you want in your next home, it will be hard to recognize the right fit when you find it. My workbook is designed to help you define your “right size” and make decisions with confidence.

Want to See How It All Comes Together?

I created a free guide, Right Sizing, to walk you through the process. You can download it at michellebabb.ca/right-sizing.html

If you are thinking about moving, let’s talk strategy before you make a decision that could cost you time, money, or peace of mind.

Michelle Babb, Broker of Real Broker Ontario
House-ology Method | Simultaneous Moves, Simplified

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Buyers: Is It Time to Scale Up?

More Than Space: What’s Really Driving Your Next Move

When you start thinking about moving up from your condo or starter home, it’s easy to say it’s just about needing more space. But the truth is space is the excuse, not the real reason. What you are really seeking is a lifestyle that fits the next chapter of your life. Maybe your kids need a backyard, your in-laws are staying longer, or you just want peace and quiet without hearing your neighbour’s every move. This is not just a move; it is a milestone.

Emotional Clarity Equals Strategic Clarity

Most real estate regrets happen when buyers skip the emotional work. If you do not get clear on what is truly motivating your move—whether it is aspiration, anxiety, or exhaustion—you will end up looking at homes that do not actually fit your life. I see it often: buyers fall for homes that look great on paper but do not deliver in real life. Getting clear on your why now will save you from chaos later.

Align Your Finances with Your Future

Scaling up is not about maxing out your pre-approval. It is about investing in a home that supports your next five to ten years. Will it work with your future commute? The new school you are considering? Maybe it offers space for a rental suite or home office. If your budget does not match your goals, you are just redecorating a detour.

Choose a Home Like You Would Choose Your Life

A home is not a status symbol; it is the foundation for your lifestyle. When you focus on what matters most, your search changes. Maybe a mudroom is more important than a formal dining room, or living near trails beats being close to downtown. Stop searching by square footage and start searching by what you truly need.

Consider This Before You Move

  • Is your why based on discomfort or desire?

  • Are you buying for your future self or just to escape your current stress?

  • Would renting for six months help you make a smarter decision?

Mini Checklist for Scaling Up

  • List your top three non-negotiables for the next chapter

  • Define your true lifestyle needs versus your wish list

  • Review your mortgage pre-approval with your long-term goals in mind

  • Journal how you want to feel in your next home and start there

You do not need to have it all figured out today. You just need enough clarity to make choices that align with your life, not your pressure.

Ready for clarity? Book your free 15-minute Clarity Call with Michelle Babb and discover how the House-ology Method can help you scale up with confidence.

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  • #House-ologyMethod

  • #SmartMoveUp

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